When you decide to make things difficult. (Lessons from  an LBL session)

Have you experienced situations in your life when no matter how much you tried, the certain things don’t work the way you want them to, as if you have been set for failure?
Recently a young woman came for a Life Between Lives (LBL) session. One of her concerns was why it is so difficult for her to open her heart to love.
When we went to search for the origin of this issue, we found the life of the young aristocrat woman in medieval Italy. The young man, she loved, wasn’t good enough for her upper crust family, so he was physically destroyed and the girl was forced to marry a man chosen for her by a family. Nothing she could do, beside to put forth her resistance. And so she decided (in her own words) to “MAKE THINGS DIFFICULT”. So she did, made things difficult for all, including herself.
She has been carried this task, this commitment “MAKE THINGS DIFFICULT” through several incarnations including the current one.
It took some forgiveness, understanding and healing to untangle and free the energies.
It takes courage to realize that in her decision to “MAKE THINGS DIFFICULT” she harmed herself.
It will take time to learn how to make different choices to honored and love herself.

In majority of cases this is our greatest lesson and a first commitmnet, to honor ourselves. This one we have to master first.